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Deandrea:
I feel that shame and hurt that I felt in childhood when my mother wouldn't let me go.
(3 December 2016)
Deandrea:
My mother does not go (she is polite at weddings and funerals but makes no effort to her siblings and their families otherwise). So here at Christmas I feel great hurt if it is a year I don't see them.
(3 December 2016)
Deandrea:
I think they see me as a 2nd tier relative (nice but not that close so not a priority). The rest of her family gathers.
(3 December 2016)
Deandrea:
Now as an adult I reach out to her family and some years they accept a visit but other years they don't.
(3 December 2016)
Deandrea:
I was used as a pawn as my mother was blinded by her anger and hurt.
(3 December 2016)
Deandrea:
My mother is not close to her family and so growing up I was not allowed to see them at holidays.
(3 December 2016)
Roberta:
She never wishes me happy birthday or messages me - When she sees me in the corridor, she looks me up and down in a disapproving way What's her problem with me?
(3 December 2016)
Roberta:
The next day I saw her in college and she looked really shocked to see me - She likes everyone else's posts and pictures on Facebook except mine.
(3 December 2016)
Roberta:
This girl who is friends with my friend often gives me cold vibes for what seems like no reason.
(3 December 2016)
Shanda:
Who was more out of line in this situation?
(3 December 2016)
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