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I see a lot of men on here not using condoms. My question is if u r going to meet a guy would it be rude or weird telling him before u have sex u want him to get tested and see the results? I am just_ Madlyn:Maybe at times i notice her glance at me [...]
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Katina:
Confused regarding a guy?
(21 November 2016)

Katina:
After this conversation messages just went totally back to sensible and normal and when I flirted he didn't really flirt back.
(21 November 2016)

Katina:
I let it go but for the first time in years I reacted and things got a bit saucy.
(21 November 2016)

Katina:
Where do I start basically I've known a guy for years through work, I didn't work with him direct and over the years every so often he used to send me messages indicating he liked me then retracted.
(21 November 2016)

Carlyn:
I'm a nice guy to respects a lady but I know at some point you have to be a man.
(21 November 2016)

Carlyn:
So am I in the friend zone or what?
(21 November 2016)

Carlyn:
I've went in and was rejected.. she says she wants to but she only kisses if I'm her actually boyfriend.
(21 November 2016)

Carlyn:
She was married for 7 years so I want to believe she's just taking it slow.
(21 November 2016)

Carlyn:
We've held hands often, hugged, she kisses my hand and vice versa.
(21 November 2016)

Carlyn:
Great dates, she dresses up nice in dresses.. says that she doesn't want to date anyone else but doesn't want a relationship yet.
(21 November 2016)